(This post was last modified: 03-29-2020, 03:12 PM by ShadowsDad.)
I agree Ray. That's where harsh words, as a minimum, come into play. One may actually need to take a stand and declare something along these lines, " I"d love to shake your hand, but for your safety and mine please stay away. We can hear each other just fine and not put ourselves at risk.". It's OK to stand up for yourself and it's OK to be safe while providing for the safety of others. If they don't understand that they aren't really friends and just random people that one lives near. I've been known to carry a tape measure and extend it to get the point across without saying a word.
Yesterday I stopped by our closest geographically and really good neighbors and friends who live 100 yards away, and we heard each other just fine from 15' away. Me on my ATV and them standing there. There was a time not long ago when we banded together against a cop killer, as were many others on the hill with us. Now those are good friends and neighbors. Yes, we all keep distance and always have and we all still know that we're friends. Don't confuse getting close and the swapping of spit in the breeze with friendship. One doesn't need to put oneself in danger to have good friends.
I go to the hospital regularly and I'm at high risk. The nurses there were putting me at risk by not staying away and for useless crap. I told them a number of times to stay away and had them arguing with me. I think the next time I go there I'm going to carry my cane and point out to them what 6' is and inform them that I don't want to be endangered by them, but if they want to endanger themselves to go ahead and continue, just not with me. I think the first part of the Hippocratic oath goes something like," First do no harm.". They forget that. They don't like me reminding them, but it's my health that they endanger and mine to protect.